The odds against marriages succeeding are devastating: almost 50% of couples who marry today in the U.S. will end up divorced. Yet, in a survey conducted a few years after couples divorced, 70% of the respondents reported that they should have tried harder and longer to save their marriages. Which begs the question, why didn’t they? The problem is, even though most people would like to save their relationships, they haven’t learned the tools or skills to turn things around. Metaphorically, their GPS system is so off that they are totally lost. If you are reading this, most probably you are one of those people who is seeking the tools and the skills to work through the pain in order to heal your wounded relationship and learn new and healthier ways of being together.